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22 Dec 2015 08:25 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:25 PM
Hi CherryBomb that is a good question ?? because My husband said one night four months ago , I am going to the hospital, and he was gone , they ended up sending him to a mental hospital, I was totally lost , ringing up everywhere, my stepdaughter found where he was the next day and they kept him in hospital for a week .
22 Dec 2015 08:33 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:33 PM
@Snoo, sorry I should have clarified. By safety plan, I mean having strategies/resources in place going into the festive season (when support services shut-down) to keep your loved one emotionally, psychologically safe.
Things you can do to keep you loved one safe throughout the festive season is:
If you are concerned about your loved during this time, there are services that are available that can use for support
Beyondblue's info line - 1300 22 4636 will operate 24/7 over the holiday period for anyone needing information on depression, anxiety and related drug and alcohol problems.
Other organisations have free telephone counselling or support lines &include:
22 Dec 2015 08:34 PM - edited 22 Dec 2015 08:35 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:34 PM - edited 22 Dec 2015 08:35 PM
@Shaz51, that sounds so stressful! I hope that you have some type of plan just in case something like this happens again?
A few years back my loved on got quite unwell, and we didn't know what to do. It's partly the reason why I worry about leaving my loved at home alone during this time of year.
I think a safety plan is a great idea. Thanks @CherryBomb
22 Dec 2015 08:36 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:36 PM
hi CherryBomb, Oh Yes I see , will have to have these tips handy
22 Dec 2015 08:37 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:37 PM
I'd not really thought about setting up a plan for emotional safety. I can see how it also help keep people physically safe too.
22 Dec 2015 08:40 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:40 PM
Hi BeHappy Yes I have like @CherryBomb said and also the biggest thing is communication , this is soooo important
22 Dec 2015 08:40 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:40 PM
Wow, I just looked at the clock and realised we only have 20 minutes left. Now is the time to share any final thoughts, or ask any questions.
Though I thought I would ask one question of you all. What's something that you are most looking forward to this Christmas? And, how are you going to enjoy/get through it?
22 Dec 2015 08:45 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:45 PM
Thanks for tonight everyone. It's helped. I'm feeling abit more positive about Christmas.
@CherryBomb, what am I looking forward to? Resting and having some time off work. I do love spending time with the little ones too. It's great seeing the joy in kids, reminds me of what Christams is about.
22 Dec 2015 08:45 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:45 PM
Oh, and Merry Christmas to you all!
22 Dec 2015 08:47 PM
22 Dec 2015 08:47 PM
Hi CherryBomb I am most looking forward to this Christmas is seeing my uncles and Aunties all together again and my cousins I have not seen for a few years , and i am going to see what happens on the day ,
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