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06 Mar 2017 08:54 PM
06 Mar 2017 08:54 PM
Hi @Maryjune - yes I am so accident prone to be honest. Lucky I have injured myself to only bruises and nothing more serious. Am just clumsy. Do have a safe flight and be thinking of you xx
Just reached back from down south. Gotta turn on my work laptop to do a bit but lacking the motivation. But I have to so I will....shortly. Was such a great day just enjoying nature. Needed it thoroughly.
06 Mar 2017 09:39 PM
06 Mar 2017 09:39 PM
07 Mar 2017 08:39 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:39 AM
Hello @Former-Member
I am going ok , thank you
Hubby is a bit anxious but is ok , lot better than sunday
He Finds he can not say "No " to new jobs , when he says yes he starts streessing out
@Mazarita, @Faith-and-Hope, I talked to hubby yesterday that we need to say no to new jobs because It is no good him and for me
Ha ha @Mazarita, that overthinking I did at 2 am , , well , when I spoke to him , he said ok --
Hello @Anony18, @Appleblossom, @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @PeppiPatty
07 Mar 2017 08:49 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:49 AM
hello @Shaz51
Just having a thought when reading about Mr Shaz being unable to say no to a job then later feeling stressed.
Do you keep an appointment diary?
How does Mr Shaz relate to keeping an appointment book, or even calendar with a large space to write on each day?
If he could see the appointments for the day clearly, even if you write next to each appointment approximately how long it will take.
Would he be able to recognise on any given day there is enough work for that day?
If it is purely related to work, he might get into the habit of looking at it each morning and be able to tell himself yes this is my job, I have 2 jobs today.
only a suggestion, you might already have something in place that works.
you look after him so well. xxx
07 Mar 2017 08:50 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:50 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:52 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:52 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:54 AM
07 Mar 2017 08:54 AM
hello @Former-Member @Shaz51
I feel sad to read that Mr Darcy is struggling and something is upsetting him so much every day.
This would be so hard to witness. Knowing that you dont have an immediate answer for him, a solution makes it so much more difficult.
There should be a database set up with volunteering opportunities at each council.
self-worth is so important for every single human being.
Keep searching, asking, someone has to listen and hear eventually
makes me feel so cross
take carexxx
07 Mar 2017 09:21 AM
07 Mar 2017 09:21 AM
07 Mar 2017 09:33 AM
07 Mar 2017 09:33 AM
Hello @Former-Member
I sense that you will know the path to follow. You know Mr Darcy so well.
Don't let anyone stop you in your search for more understanding and support for you both.
xxxx
07 Mar 2017 09:48 AM
07 Mar 2017 09:48 AM
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