@Teej @CheerBear I love being able to come on here and read your interactions with each other - it is like two old friends having a chat and supporting each other - always gives me a smile even when the content of conversations is tricky. You both support each other so well and that is something to celebrate. 
@Teej I hope you get some time with your Big - it would have been disappointing that you didn't have today as you had planned. Hopefully you will have some evenings at least where you can spend some time together. This gf seems to be very clingy so I hope your Big doesn't feel suffocated by all the time together 
@CheerBear It is wonderful that Big is venturing out so well on their own. It is no small thing to have to let go of those reins and you are doing exceptionally well in doing that yourself. It is also great to read that you are feeling a little safer in your world. We both know how hard that is to navigate especially when you feel like 'others' will try to find us and there feels like there is nowhere we can feel safe. I hope you can continue to feel a little more secure in your world CB - it is so important to have that feeling to be able to function each day. You definitely have my thoughts with you Hon
