12-10-2025 09:03 PM
12-10-2025 09:03 PM
@Mustang67 @Dreamy @Sparky79 @DownMoreThanUp
thank you for all your good tools and tips
its great how one or another can really hit hom
😀💙🍎
12-10-2025 09:30 PM
12-10-2025 09:30 PM
@Bunniekins thank you. I am well after having a week of stomach cramps every time I ate something that my gallbladder didn't agree with. So currently pain free. Enjoy the rest of your evening 😊
12-10-2025 09:31 PM
12-10-2025 09:31 PM
@Glisten yes, I personally think CCL has too much money. She's never had to worry about a mortgage, she's an only child and when her mum died she got the house and car. She keeps saying that she deserves a pay rise for some reason (she's told me why but I stopped listening when she started on why she should get paid more). I suspect she's on close to $40 an hour if not more. She recently bought a new car, and is currently on a cruise. I worked out the cruise and airfares was about $6000 plus she's staying in London at the end of the trip to catch up with friends. She spends $900 a month on her cats. I spend $125. Granted I only have 2 but that's like 100 a cat! Oh, did I mention she spent 15 THOUSAND dollars on one cat when it needed surgery?
Meanwhile I feel guilty because I went to Bunnings and spent $140. Most of that was on a new kitchen tap, but still!
She took me to Bunnings for my birthday last year, spent $125 on me and didn't bat an eyelash.
But my house is nicer 😁. And so is my car 🤣
12-10-2025 10:02 PM
12-10-2025 10:02 PM
@ENKELI of course your house and car are nicer. Not covered in cat pee.
I think it’s wonderful that you can put all those things aside and be friends with CCL.
I wonder if CCL’s co-workers can smell cat odour?
12-10-2025 10:10 PM
12-10-2025 10:10 PM
Hey @Jynx how’s your Sunday going? I’m about to take the plunge and dive into responses and try and catchup on some threads.
Hope it’s been a good day for everyone 🙏
12-10-2025 10:13 PM
12-10-2025 10:13 PM
Meh 🫤 very average day @Chasingsunsets Buzy week ahead.
Yourself?
12-10-2025 10:17 PM
12-10-2025 10:17 PM
@Glisten that's an interesting point. She doesn't smell like cat when we go out but it would be interesting to smell if I sat next to her in an office environment. Often when I've gone over to see her or drop something off to her the smell when she opens the front door is breath-taking. In the worst way possible.
We've known each other for 51 years. Her mum was my second mum. We've had our ups and downs but we have a lot of history. We were supposed to be doing a cruise or special trip for our 50th anniversary but she quickly told me she wouldn't be able to as she had just started new job, didn't have leave etc etc. I said okay we'll do it in 2025. So what does she do? Goes on a holiday with her friend she's known for 10 years.
We have a mutual friend who moved back to Qld but was coming back over the Christmas break and I said to her to let me know when she was free to catch up. I didn't hear from her and I mentioned how disappointed I was to CCL. She in turn said that oh yes, she suggested we do a high tea but I told her you probably wouldn't come. Not the first time she's done that either.
We used to have her with us for Christmas and she would always leave just after lunch because she'd double book herself. We decided to do it year about so she could spend the whole day with us one year and then the next year with her other friend.
The first year we had her over she left after lunch as usual because she had forgotten the plan.
I spoke to mum and bro about it and we've now decided that we will invite her if we are in town and if we choose to go to 2J instead to have Christmas with my aunt and uncle then she can sit at home with her cats for all I care now.
I love her like a sister, and I dislike her like a sister.
Aren't you glad you mentioned CCL now?! 🤣🤣
How's your day been Tomaatti? I went to Funnings and bought more plants. I love Funnings.
12-10-2025 10:44 PM
12-10-2025 10:44 PM
Dear @Mustang67 @had my gall bladder out in march 2025. What a nightmare then it was gone.
i gotta warn you i poohed my knickers sometimes ……. 🥸:face_with_rolling_eyes:
12-10-2025 11:12 PM
12-10-2025 11:12 PM
Thank you @Dreamy! so need that message i do 😊
of course i dont see it till 11pm aha
hope your day was kind and know you are a good in the world muchly!!! 💝
12-10-2025 11:46 PM
12-10-2025 11:46 PM
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