Let`s Talk -- how was you day today !!

[Shaz51]

hello @Bananatron, @merri, one day at a time my friends

I have tagged you to come and have a hot chocolate with us and some wonderful friends @Former-Member, @Carlachris, @shane01, @Former-Member, @Determined, @Catcakes, @Faith-and-Hope, @Jojo2, @Lesley, @Appleblossom, @Former-Member, @Adge, @Smc

and @Bananatron sending you knowing hugs and there will be plenty of people aggreeing with you

[Adge]

That's not being sensitive (I don't think) @Bananatron

Those type of comments can leave me feeling like "Nobody is listening" & that "I'm not being heard".

So, yes it can definitely bring resentment.

Like when I almost died (twice) in hospital (the doctors told me). The emergency surgeries went disastrously wrong...

Then several people said later "It could have been worse" & "You're lucky" etc.

I felt insulted & patronised.

Some people have absolutely no idea...

Adge

[Bella1978]

Hi @Bananatron

I too have anxiety and depression. And until a person has actually experienced it themselves, they will not understand. It is more than just being 'sad' or feeling 'stressed'. No, you're not being sensitive at all. You have a right to feel that way. *hugs*

[Shaz51]

Hello @Grace01, @Kiera80 @Diamond @lostconcerned @Karren @Wordsmatter, @cheersquad, @Bananatron, @merri, @shane01, @Adge, @Bella1978, @Susana, @Jo, @JoJo99 

How was your day today ???

[Shaz51]

 Hello @Carlachris, @Boo13, @Lesley, @PeppiPatty 

[Adge]

Hi @Shaz51

Hi everyone.

My client had major incontinence today (without warning) - which was very stressful trying to clean up a widespread mess, without any bathroom facilities to do it with.

I then had to phone his group home, & take him home early - because he needed a total bodywash (shower or bath).

On the plus side, I bought a new Cockatiel (Weero) to replace my favourite, that died last night.

I phoned up & booked my Sleep Dr appointment - which is not available until late August (a 3 & 1/2 month wait).

I then phoned & booked the mechanic to service my car, ahead of time (this time)...

Adge

[Bella1978]

Hey @Shaz51 ... my day was bleh lol ... although my bestie is coming over soon with fish and chips so that be nice 🙂

how was your day?

[Shaz51]

hugs @Bella1978, @Adge 

need a photo @Adgexx

fish and chips sound great @Bella1978 xx

[Bella1978]

@Shaz51

thanks 🙂 yeah, im hanging out for her to get here with my dinner! haha ...patience ...

[Shaz51]

Hello @Bella1978, @Adge, @Bananatron, @merri, @shane01

how is everyone tonight xoxo