Anyone feel like chatting? Coffee/Tea ☕💕

[Former-Member]

It's just so stupid how a certain time of the year can be such a stress and what the heck for?

Please do what's right for you @Former-Member.

[Former-Member]

I better try and sleep @Former-Member
I'll be on here tomorrow after a sleepin, if you need to chat.

Nighty night 😙💜😴

[TAB]

Not sure why xmas is such a big deal, can understand New Years, ah may leave soon super early tomorrow. just realised am deliberately putting off leaving to last possible minute @Former-Member prob ih hope that then it will be easier to make something up and not go

[TAB]

Hi @Former-Member @Former-Member hope you are both OK today. Have finally decided leaving tomorrow morning, not sure what all the fuss was, well trying to make self available for others when it didnt really suit me. Shellfish of me, guess. Feel okay with it tho

[Former-Member]

Do you feel you have to go @TAB? I guess you want to see parents because they're aging.
I feel guilty because my mother is late 80's, but, NOT GOING THERE.😀

Cuppa for you ☕ and @Former-Member and anyone else around. 😀

Strong Svenska kaffe (swedish coffee).
Went to IKEA the other day.

Had lunch and dinner there, lol. Came home with 2 trollies full of things. 😮😀
Huge shop, love the food. Swedish meatballs etc. Going back soon.

[Former-Member]

By the way @TAB, not selfish. Sometimes pleasing others isn't worth it. I took a LONG time to learn that. Sometimes we need to think of ourselves, do what's right for you. Someone needs to take care of "you". 😺😀

[TAB]

Hmm prob cos think have to yes very old, not well esp mum. Sister asked what my plans were and said that she would be there. Haven't seen her for years and dont really want to, but if that's an invitation I'll take it I guess. Well that might get me out of seeing anyone again until funerals haha. Be interesting to see if fathers still all upbeat like last time, get to see her boys and younger brother and family coming soon after so there are positives. You do whats right for you 😀 I guess I must want to go else wouldn't be der lol

[TAB]

Thanks for cuppa. Is swedish coffee ok? Used to like wandering around ikea with friend years ago

[TAB]

yeah, you're right. I mostly do my own thing tho so should be able to appear once a year at least. @Former-Member ok I'm father xmas, I only come once a year lol

[Former-Member]

Might end up better than you think @TAB
Hope so. Big drive for you. Will you stay at your parents place?

I'll be on and off here. Washing to hang etc