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17 Dec 2018 09:05 PM
17 Dec 2018 09:05 PM
17 Dec 2018 09:20 PM
17 Dec 2018 09:20 PM
Hi @Owlunar, that scene you painted in words of that childhood incident with carsickness, the bull, your dad roaring back at it (and keeping it up), your mum telling you to hurry up vomiting, your grandma's unexpected comment on it all - hilarious! Thanks for the genuine out-loud laugh.
When I was about three or four and we were living on the cattle station, I used to sometimes follow my dad around as he did various jobs that were part of his work as station hand. He was a tall bloke with a long stride so I don't know how I could possibly have ever kept up, but this is a true memory.
Anyway one day as I was running behind him, he cut through a little paddock on his way somewhere, and I followed him in. There was a cow and a calf in there and I went to pat the calf. At that point the protective mum-cow started chasing me round and round in a little circle. She wasn't going fast or even being very threatening probably, but being so little and that cow so bloody huge, I was sprinting round and round for dear life! I called out to Dad in my panic. He turned and saw what was happening and, I guess couldn't help himself, he just laughed out loud at the sight! I reckon the cow must have given up pretty quickly on chasing such a puny creature as me. But that memory has stayed in my mind all these years! I wasn't very keen on cows for a long time after that!
17 Dec 2018 09:58 PM
17 Dec 2018 09:58 PM
@outlander, here's a list of possible words:
sky
places
relaxation
holidays
TV
love
friendship
animals
food
dancing
singing
shopping
sounds
weather
hair
books
clothes
school
time
Take your pick!
17 Dec 2018 10:02 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:02 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:06 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:06 PM
@outlander Might get a little off topic or even hard to do, but maybe put up a picture and see what reactions/feelings it invokes. Lots of people looking at the same picture can uncover a lot of different interpretations. Could be
interesting ❤️❤️
17 Dec 2018 10:07 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:07 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:24 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:24 PM
@outlander. It’s kind of like when a writer describes a room with green curtains and blue walls. Some people interpret it to mean the writer was wistful for the days of his youth spent frolicking in the ocean (blue walls) while his tormented soul was deluded by depression (green curtains) - when in actual fact the writer was simply just describing a blue room with green curtains 🤣🤣
A simple picture could be rewarded with a lot of interesting commemts, emotions, or memories.
17 Dec 2018 10:42 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:42 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:52 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:52 PM
Thanks for sharing Maz - it's really a great soul experience when someone picks up the humour when I write - and in retrospect that whole scene was really funny - and add to it my sibs - both younger than me - daring to mock with sound effects etc - they would not have dared to do that if I was on both feet. Actually even at the time I decided to ignore them,
Your story is touching - and my father had long strides too and I had to really move myself to keep up with him - and in my mind's eye seeing a little girl running around in a circle - round and round - is provocative- almost like a cartoon
I like cows - there is a warm, comforting feeling about them but I admit - I enjoy the fence between me and them too - I grew up visiting the children on the small farms north of the city when Dad was about his business - I loved the animals - esp the little white baby lambs with their little tails wriggling around when they nursed
Great memories - your Dad laughing though - that must be a good memory - I love thinking about my Dad laughing too -
Dec
17 Dec 2018 10:52 PM
17 Dec 2018 10:52 PM
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