Dealing with a problem creatively

[PeppiPatty]

hi @Appleblossom

Did i read the messages ?

Im writing about the restraining order and instead of spreading my issues on other people's  pages, i thought ide come back here.

Today, i got the first bang on the front door from my stalker. Crying, he was saying what is happening? What did i do? Dont call the police, crying. 

I opened the door and i said, i have a restraining order on you. I have spent a few months getting support letters and support. You have belittled me, yelled at me told the whole of this area plus police that i have times of mental ill health.  You constantly abuse me, ive had the police abuse me for wasting their time. Ive had enough.

I knew that it was illegal for me to speak to him like that so when i called the police, they said It was okay because........they stilll hadnt served the restraining order. He haD dissappeared and they hadnt found him. 

So, he will be served by tomorrow.

I have been happy for the last couple of weeks. Ive got the housing  manager coming over to interview me about a move closer to where im comfortable. Im seeing my old Psychotherapist......things are going  very slowly forward. I have been now, making realizations who i like being with.

I feel like ive chosen my Mum or my Dad's perzonalities for too long. 

[Appleblossom]

Some men think they can belittle women and think that it wont ruin the relationship .. it is not logical .. a little like soiling the nest. Good luck and I hope it works out for you. 

Misogyny and negative attitudes to us were seen as normal for so long .. its a crazy world ..just as crazy as my family but now I dont take it in to hurt myself .. but have my little fight back and humour is part of that.

Goodnight  Sweet Dreams

[PeppiPatty]

You too @@Appleblossom

Thanks for your messages on your brother. Im smiling thinking of him showing off on his weed an you thinking....im so over that, i

[Appleblossom]

Missing your cheery intuitive posting

Hope everything is going reasonably well.

[Former-Member]

well done for ringing the police @PeppiPatty you're amazing... something that i still couldnt do 😞 sigh! Hope that you're going well and its lovely to 'see' you!

lj

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Hi Anne

I think you are an incredible, strong woman. You have done what I was never strong enough to do.

Congratulations on taking a stand and taking the power back.

Take care

Karen