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20 Sep 2017 09:28 PM - edited 20 Sep 2017 09:36 PM
20 Sep 2017 09:28 PM - edited 20 Sep 2017 09:36 PM
So good to read all enjoyed Enya. She has sings such beautiful tune soothe the soul.
Good to hear from you @Appleblossom - sorry to read that you are feeling a bit flat. What has been happening with you lately? Are you still singing in the choir, teaching piano etc? Would love to hear what you have been up to.
Hope your heater is working for you by now @Zoe7and you are finding relief from the cold 💕
@Faith-and-Hope - how is your daughter's neck?
I hope your rise in medication eases your anxiety somewhat @Maggie. I know that when my anxiety/agrophobic was bad they did help ease mine giving relief. Lets us know how it goes.
I didn't see my daughter today as I was at work. But she rang my husband and seemed in better spirits. She told him she is starting to realise the value of money and will have to watch her spending. She is learning and I am now so glad we did not step in and bail her out as this made her more responsible. A good thing.
We were quite busy at the shop today and the staff were in good spirits. Except for a couple of instances- we were informed that a friend of the chairlady's sister, whom was around my age, committed suicide. Really tragic. I had not met the deceased person but had met her sister a couple of times and she is a beautiful lady. We were meant to catch up for a game of bowls. I feel so sad for her and her family. Apparently the deceased had been struggling for awhile but that's all I know of her struggle for now. I just wish I could of met her in time.
Also another lady waiting on the line to be served just burst out into tears, violently shaking all over and nearly fell to the ground. We were all shocked and went to her assistance. She was sobbing so hard. A few men and woman helped her to her car (I had to stay behind the register). They later found out that her husband was dying of a brain tumour and she herself was unwell. Life can be so horribly cruel at times. I keep thinking about her and wondering how she is coping. I was thinking we should have a pastoral care person or similar type of support person to follow up on customers whom are so distressed to see if they are alright. What do you think of this idea? Do you think it is going too far?
We do come across quite a few people in distress at our work, but we also see happy people whom are glad we are there offering this service as it's helping them a lot. So it's a good balance happening there I think.
I loved the pics of the garden - looks like you have a nice big planting area. Is it in your backyard? Do you live in a villa? It will look spectacular when fully grown. Gardens bring so much joy and relaxation- I definitely will plant another when I move.
Husband is still quite sick and is going back to the GP tomorrow. I hope he won't end up in hospital.
I was just thinking about the writing group today myself. It will be quite busy up until my daughter moves out and settles. Once that is done I will probably be relaxed enough to think something up and start the writing group. So hopefully not long now.
Do you have any plans for tomorrow? I think I will retire early tonight as I can hardly keep my eyes open. I will be cleaning the house all day tomorrow but may also sneak some cross stitch in as well. Sweet dreams my friends 💕🤗xx
20 Sep 2017 10:44 PM
20 Sep 2017 10:44 PM
Daughter's neck recovering very slowly @Former-Member ....
21 Sep 2017 06:43 AM
21 Sep 2017 06:43 AM
@Former-Member Good morning. You had quite a day yesterday. I think the pastoral care is a good one. Just the fact that there is someone in tune can be comforting to many, along with prayer and ongoing support. Do you have someone in mind?
Sounds like your daughter is coming through things @Former-Member, all your hard hard work and suffering are paying off. Just protect yourself.
The area I live there are about 20 other flats off a Main Street. Not a villa but all owned by catholic care. The garden pics are out the back. I was lucky to have an empty canvas. The lady who lived here before didn't do anything with the garden. There is a good area and we are allowed to do what we want, I'm enjoying it.
Josh just said on tv 40 expected in NSW, that's very hot for September, I think we are expecting 16.
I hope your husbands health picks up, I know you worry. My friend bought a Chinese medicine thing for someone she knows with lung problems. It's supposed to do wonders for chest problems. I could get the name of it if you are interested. It cast $20.
Today im picking up a pair of shoes I've been paying off. I'm excited as I love them. Good for summer. Tomorrow my friend has to be away for the day so I will have the dog. I might take them both to the athletic centre next door for a good run, it will do us all good.
A high five.
21 Sep 2017 07:10 AM
21 Sep 2017 07:10 AM
21 Sep 2017 10:54 AM
21 Sep 2017 10:54 AM
Glad your daughter is growing up @Former-Member
Early in September I had a few peak events singing with 2 different choirs. They were with great people, musicians and wonderful works. One was a new work about historical Australian figure. Great narrative practise as well as music.
Problem is I have been over stretched for far too long I need a lot going on for me to feel functional and distracted from myself.
There is only so much distraction works. It is not my first approach though, I usually have been forced to fly between the horns of my dilemnas from a very young age. Distraction has only been a luxury late in life.
I dont want to write too much but next is preparing for Royal Commission. I do a little work on statement and back off and deal with current time. Very Delicato atm. Had a lovely 25th birthday with my son this week.
22 Sep 2017 11:41 AM
22 Sep 2017 11:41 AM
Hi @Maggie@Appleblossom@Faith-and-Hope and all,
@Appleblossom - I like distraction too but that balance is all important. Be kind to yourself as you face a very harrowing emotional journey before you with the Royal Commission. Am here if you need me my friend.
How are you both @Maggie and @Faith-and-Hope? I have been thinking about you always.
Sorry for the late post but I had a turn yesterday. Not sure if it's a complication of the flu, the medication for it or stress but am going to have further tests today and next week. Feeling quite weak so this post we'll be brief, just wanted you all to know that I am thinking about you and send lots of love. ❤️❤️💜❤️💜💜💜❤️❤️🌹X
22 Sep 2017 12:28 PM
22 Sep 2017 12:28 PM
@Former-Member I really am sorry to hear your health has taken a dip. Hoping the tests come up with something helpful that can be worked through. You are under a lot of stress atm probably making relaxation very difficult. I'll keep it brief so you can get in some rest. Thinking of you sending warm wishes and a hug.
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