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why can't I cope longer?

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Re: why can't I cope longer?

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Thank you @Anastasia  💐 😞

Hi 👋 @Clawde  ✔️  @Adge ✔️   @Appleblossom ✔️  @Emelia8 ✔️ 

How are you all?

Thanks for ticks 😒

CLAWDE - sorry but I don't understand the context of your post to Shaz51 - can you explain? I did get you 24 tick tonight. Talk to me!

Seems hard for many to engage in discussion with me. I'm wondering if 'the team' has imposed this restraint (since it's across the board). It's not as if I'm not trying. your ✔️s just tell me you've read it, not what you think. Its Almost insulting really, 

Didn't think I'd have to spell it out with so many empaths here, but i'm trying to work out

- why I'm seeing this child in cupboard?

- why does it upset me?

- what do I do with it?

- is it demonic? Or God?

Is the little girl someone who died & should i go back and talk with the sellers about the cupboards history? What then? 

- is it echos of past child trauma - a child who was repeatedly locked in it?  Maybe even died there. 

 My grandmother was a medium. It's against my faith to talk to the dead.

 

Is it more likely my brain is just mixing up this beautiful little white cupboard with losing my own daughter? A grief thing? Or maybe my own lost childhood? (Inner child).

 

How do we work this stuff out?

I felt connected to the cupboard the moment I saw it..weird I know.

 

Guess Some questions just dont have answers

:face_with_rolling_eyes:Maybe I need an antipsychotic? lol

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hello @Former-Member 

Thank you for your message. I can assure you no one has been asked not to talk to you sweetheart. That doesn't happen.

I'm sorry it feels that way. Hurts my heart you feel like that. I can only speak for me and tell you that I'm drowning a little, being carried out to sea. I feel like I'm not enough to anyone here at present. But I do see you, and I do think of you daily and hand on heart I care very much about you Eor 🙏 I should add I'm grateful for your friendship, it means a lot.

 

In response to the cupboard I don't have much insight other than go with your heart as to what to do. It sounds.like.you have a gift. As long as you aren't frightened then your answer will come. 

I will ask a couple of friends that are gifted. See what they think and come back to you EOR 🙏

 

You ok @Former-Member ? 

Former-Member
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Re: why can't I cope longer?

Thanks @Anastasia, youre very kind. I struggle feeling close to people and surprised you refer to me as 'friend' I don't think K I know you well enough. When I first came here I connected strongly with a couple but they drifted away 😢 And there's several who STILL talk around and ignore me.
Sorry you're not doing well lately, your son is a handfull I know, and I'm praying things settle for him. And your other boy was in accident, broke bones 😟 W is all horrible, I'm really sorry and don't want to add to the strain. I still have trouble keeping up here, beat myself up about it, all I can work on mostly is present moment. Oh, gotta go, so tired. Xox

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hey @Former-Member , it sounds like you have some concerns about the forums at the moment. We are always open to working with members to help them use the forums in a way that benefits them and the rest of the community. We'd really like to help, if we can, would you mind send us an email at team@saneforums.org so that we can investigate exactly what's happening and what might be helpful moving forwards?

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Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hi @moxi  - sorry to bother you, can you tell me if saneteam have told anyone  not to interact with me? Simple question. Thanks for the offer to email but i know you less and don't feel safe behind the scenes. Here's ok with me. Thanks xox

Re: why can't I cope longer?

@Former-Member  Not a bother at all. I haven't heard of anything like that, I'm wondering if maybe sometimes people support a post without replying because they want you to know that they care, but aren't sure what to say. I will ask the day crew to contact you to discuss this with you because it sounds like you're feeling really concerned about this and we all want you to have a positive online experience. 

Former-Member
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Re: why can't I cope longer?

That's nice @Maxi but i think too much water has gone under the bridge perhaps. Must keep putting my foot in it, or not 'give' enough.
I'm just settling after a bad nightmare... Think I'm under spiritual attack
Gotta rest 😴
Hope your nights not too busy. ❣️

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hello dear @Former-Member 💖

I apologise for not replying to your post about the new white cupboard. Fact is I am struggling a lot with this back of mine. Still in a lot of pain, and pain killers are not effective for severe nerve pain.

 

Fact is, I have been very quiet on the forums lately and rarely responding other than my thumbs up. For me, hitting the support button is not just acknowleding that I have read the post. It is also meant to let you know that I support you, and what you have said.

 

I will add that I have not been told by anyone to avoid you in any way. I like and admire you way too much to take heed of such advice anyway ... even if it was to ever occur. 🌸

 

I think you may be correct in supposing that maybe there are no real answers to your questions about the cupboard and your visions. It sounds distressing, and it makes me sad that it upsets you.

 

Not sure what to advise. Perhaps you could talk to your priest or minister? And I think it would also be appropriate to ask for a history of the cupboard from the former owner. As @Anastasia said too, it sounds like you have a gift. And I believe that often that gift can become a burden.

 

Sending you my love and a hug @Former-Member because yes .. I consider you my friend. 💞

 

Emelia

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hi @Former-Member  I am truly sorry I up set you I did not mean to in any way shape of form, I press the support button every time I read around on different posts and personally don't know what to do about the cupboard, if it what it sounds like could the police check it for DNA or somethingen maybe I am over thinking this.

and the hello to @Shaz I do it all the time when I see her name she helped me big time when I first got on this forum she is one of the most helpful kind soles on the forum, sorry again if I affended you I truly like you please let me know how you go with the cupboard from @Clawde 

tagging in @Anastasia @Appleblossom @Emelia8 sorry again if I upset anyone 😢

Re: why can't I cope longer?

Hello again @Former-Member 

Well I consider you a friend so I hope.in time you can consider me one too. 

 

The advice I received back from my tarot lady is to cleanse the cupboard. Clear the energies, make it tur own so to speak...hope this helps. 

 

Here is a general cleansing ritual that I perform on all of my secondhand finds.

 

Physically wash the item: use natural or environmentally friendly soap cleanser to remove any dirt, dust, or debris from the item.

Place a clean white cloth on a table, or floor area where the items will not be disturbed. This works for small to medium sized items. If the item is really large you can skip this step.

The cloth and object(s) should be in a bright sunlit room. The sun is a very powerful healing and cleansing aid. The items should be placed in the sunlight anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour. (This step is ideal, but for those who find this challenging or impossible for whatever reason it ok to skip this step).

Light a bundle of dried white sage: Smudge the object by allowing the smoke to cover and encompass completely. if it is an item that opens and closes, be sure to open any compartments, drawers, or doors to allow the smoke to flow freely.

Say a Prayer Or blessing: This is wonderful for setting your intention for the clearing of the items. Please feel free to ask for the divine aid of any spiritual helper you feel comfortable in aiding you in protection, this can be a deity, archangel, or spirit guide. Ask that any and all stagnant energy and energetic attachments be cleansed and released from the items. that your items be infused with positive and vibrant light, to assure that these items align with providing your home or workspace with love and all that is of higher vibrational energy. End Your prayer or blessing by thanking Great spirit, God, your angels, or guides, ect.

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