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09 Mar 2017 08:33 AM
09 Mar 2017 08:33 AM
Hello @Former-Member, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope xx
@Former-Member wrote ---Do you find with the ups and downs that tenderness can be a casualty. Talking about the gentle touches on the arm or hair Still get hugs but miss these other intimate gestures.
Totally Agree @Former-Member, xx Me too
and also when I am really upset, he takes a lonnnnng time to just give me a hug -- one second hug
09 Mar 2017 08:40 AM
09 Mar 2017 08:40 AM
Hello @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Mazarita, @Maryjune xx
My problem is I keep feeling responsible for fixing things. -- me too @Determined
I like @Former-Member comment that we cant love someone back to health (doesn't stop me trying),
But I must say that Love has changed my hubby over the years , He has changed over the years
09 Mar 2017 09:19 AM
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09 Mar 2017 10:40 AM
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That's all we can try to do ....
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09 Mar 2017 03:53 PM
09 Mar 2017 03:53 PM
Right On @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Determined xx
11 Mar 2017 12:46 PM
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11 Mar 2017 08:26 PM
11 Mar 2017 08:26 PM
hi @Determined and everyone. I've spoken to his doctor and told me it's borderline personality disorder and they rule out his delusions are from the drugs and alcohol he had before. as of the moment he is taking his mess but he still feels restless. He mentions stuffs like a transmitter in his ears and someone is spying on him and I can see he is struggling to control his temper , he still gets easily confuse with the way our stuff is organized. sometimes he gets frustrated and walks away then come back calm .. so he is trying to control his frustrations. there are moments he would think I'm cheating on him when I'm browsing my phone and turn off the apps when he is trying to talk to me..so far our situation is ok .. but I'm kinda worried coz he said meds so expensive and since he is on centerlink pay only he is worried he can't afford it. so he is hinting he doesn't want to take meds anymore. . I'm kinda concern thou coz his dellusions is still there and gettin worse.
11 Mar 2017 10:05 PM
11 Mar 2017 10:05 PM
Hi @Former-Member,
Thankyou, our bbq went really well, my darling was having a major stress out this morning about getting everything done but we got the necessary done with time for a nap before our visitors arrived. It all went well with little stress after our visitors left.
We did take the cheats approach this time and bought disposable everything and binned it all at the end of the night so there was no washing up. Don't know why we have never done that before lol.
Glad to hear you are doing better and trust your upcoming meeting goes well. Know exactly what you mean when you say about not trusting the toung when the heart is bitter. I often have to say nothing rather than risk saying somthing I may later regret. Trust you can work through it all for the best outcome for both you and mr Darcy.
12 Mar 2017 11:26 AM
12 Mar 2017 11:26 AM
Hello @Determined, @Maryjune, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Mazarita, @Former-Member
I am here for a second before going to the family reunion lunch soon
Last night we had a family reunion dinner where there were a big crowd of us
Dinner Friday night -- wow , getting tired my friends
Next question @Former-Member xx, and how are you today
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