A long rave

[Former-Member]

@Former-Member, at least you have your daughter,I regret not having a child in my life, I nearly got involved with a male who showed the signs of violence last year plus was sexually assaulted at 16.I get angry how vulnerable I was to them. Just try and calm down,he isn't worth it.

[Faith-and-Hope]

I’m just going to sneak in here and scatter a few hugs about for everybody ..... I have received so many tonight that I am dropping a few ..... so if you pick any up, hold them close ..... here for each other.

💜💗💚💐☔️🐠🌷

[Former-Member]

@Faith-and-Hope👫

[Appleblossom]

@Former-Member 

[Former-Member]

@Appleblossom I may have misinterpreted it but i was tagged with the context i like hearing about father and daughter stories they can be simple...

I'm sorry you have misinterpreted that i am a male.

Torrid is an understatement. it has upset me.

I don't think this forum is going to help me

[Former-Member]

@NikNak can you please remove me from the forum thank you

[Former-Member]

@NikNik

[Mazarita]

Hi @Former-Member, just woke up and found your message here. So sorry there has been this problem in communications tonight that has caused you distress.

Just to let you know that @NikNik or another @Former-Member will receive your message about wishing to leave the forums during business hours tomorrow. You can also contact the SANE administration directly by email on team@saneforums.org.

It's easy to make the mistake with gender on this forum as many of us have neutral usernames. Also, it can sometimes help to remember we are all struggling with mental health issues. This sometimes does lead to miscommunications and misunderstandings between members. It's so unfortunate that this is resulting in you feeling like you need to leave the forum, as it seems to have been helping in some ways in the time you have been here so far.

I hope you will be able to get some rest and maybe think on things again in the morning. I don't think there was any malice intended in the message you received, just misunderstanding. But, given what you have been through, it's understandable why you may feel so distressed.

Wishing you well, whatever your decision on this.

[Former-Member]

@Former-Member
I got the moderator to remove me before Xmas due to the judgements of another member which triggered me badly.I can see but that @Appleblossum meant no harm to you.I had to return last week due to other members who I missed and have a rapport with,and its a form of connection due to the social impact of my failures in life.I suggest you just log off for a while .

[Former-Member]

I am well aware everyone is struggling with issues on here. That's part of the reason i want to leave. It's too much and overwhelming. I don't feel comfortable at the moment. Some comments are just making me more angry.
I do feel compassion & empathy for some threads on here. It's very hard to give someone what they need as well while you're own troubles are heavy/not the same as anothers personal demons or tradegy. I feel like a hipocrit i can't cope with my own so how can i fully relate connect and provide what someone else needs when everyone has had all different journeys. I am so muddled. Just want to scream & shut off