Hi @Former-Member, just woke up and found your message here. So sorry there has been this problem in communications tonight that has caused you distress.
Just to let you know that @NikNik or another @Former-Member will receive your message about wishing to leave the forums during business hours tomorrow. You can also contact the SANE administration directly by email on team@saneforums.org.
It's easy to make the mistake with gender on this forum as many of us have neutral usernames. Also, it can sometimes help to remember we are all struggling with mental health issues. This sometimes does lead to miscommunications and misunderstandings between members. It's so unfortunate that this is resulting in you feeling like you need to leave the forum, as it seems to have been helping in some ways in the time you have been here so far.
I hope you will be able to get some rest and maybe think on things again in the morning. I don't think there was any malice intended in the message you received, just misunderstanding. But, given what you have been through, it's understandable why you may feel so distressed.
Wishing you well, whatever your decision on this.
