11-03-2017 06:49 PM
11-03-2017 06:49 PM
Hi @BlueBay
Wow, how exciting! fingers are crossed that you get a great offer asap!
An early night sounds great! I'm having an early one too 🙂
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11-03-2017 07:05 PM
11-03-2017 07:05 PM
Yes @BlueBay .... sounding exciting .... ❤️💕
11-03-2017 07:11 PM
11-03-2017 07:11 PM
Thanks @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member
It is exciting but at the same time anxious and sad. So many changes happening.
11-03-2017 07:28 PM - edited 11-03-2017 07:29 PM
11-03-2017 07:28 PM - edited 11-03-2017 07:29 PM
That's good news on the real estate front @BlueBay But change and moving can also be stressful. Do you have another area/home lined up? Keep they clear in your mind as a new beginning is exciting and worth the stress in the long run. Have a relaxing evening my friend. Hope all is okay with you @Owlunar also 🤗
11-03-2017 07:34 PM
11-03-2017 07:34 PM
Hi @Former-Member
we sort of have an idea where we want to go. Stay in same area or move 10 mins down the road. But still around our area near the beach.
I need to stay calm and once we sell, then we can have a garage sale; pack stuff for salvation army; and if we have to we will rent for a while until we find something we really love. We don't want to buy another place just for the sake of buying; we want to be sure it is right.
But all this will be stressful, I know. That's why i need to stay calm for now; wait and see what happens with the sale.
I know our kids will help us. It is also emotionally stressful as this was the house my parents owned and lived in and also one of the abusers. That's why I need to get out of thhis house and start afresh.
11-03-2017 08:44 PM
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12-03-2017 06:39 PM - edited 12-03-2017 06:45 PM
12-03-2017 06:39 PM - edited 12-03-2017 06:45 PM
@BlueBay wrote:Hi @Former-Member
we sort of have an idea where we want to go. Stay in same area or move 10 mins down the road. But still around our area near the beach.
I need to stay calm and once we sell, then we can have a garage sale; pack stuff for salvation army; and if we have to we will rent for a while until we find something we really love. We don't want to buy another place just for the sake of buying; we want to be sure it is right.
But all this will be stressful, I know. That's why i need to stay calm for now; wait and see what happens with the sale.
I know our kids will help us. It is also emotionally stressful as this was the house my parents owned and lived in and also one of the abusers. That's why I need to get out of thhis house and start afresh.
Sounds like you live in a beautiful area @BlueBay I can totally relate to your reasons for wanting to sell and your need for a fresh start from bad memories. I am selling my house for the same reasons. Here's to a better future for you and me on the sea. Thinking of you and sending lots of love 🤗
13-03-2017 12:48 PM
13-03-2017 12:48 PM
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