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Just checking in.

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I have no idea how long it is going to take for me to reach a decision I am comfortable with, but more time is needed I think @Mazarita. Curious to know how long it took you to reach your decision, though also understanding it may not be something you would like to or feel comfortable talking about.

I can imagine that kind of scene being intimidating in ways, particularly with the sophistication. I can become pretty easily intimidated around people who have that about them and find it in most groups of people I try/have tried mingling with. Good to hear he also has what sounds like a chill and relaxed style too.

I think last night was good for my people. Unwell one comes home tomorrow so well one will be on their own tonight. Spending the night here might have helped ease them into it a bit.

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@CheerBear, the first time I had to make a decision on something like this was when I was quite young and the decision was very clear. The second time was more difficult because I was at the other end of my fertility cycle and the decision was much more final for my lifetime. I had decided to go one way for some time in this instance, then changed my mind at the last minute. As I've said before, I have few or no regrets about either event, but I do sometimes think in a passing way about what might have been if my life had taken a different direction.

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Thanks for sharing @Mazarita. It's comforting to know you don't have regrets. It's something I have read most people also experience (no/little regret). Much appreciate your openness and time ❤

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It's a serious subject but really no issue for me to talk about it, especially with you, @CheerBear. Glad to be able to share with you. Heart

Now I think I will return to bed for my next sleep. Wishing you calmer feelings this day. Heart

Hi to everyone in this thread too, have been reading and 'supporting' but not replying much on the forum just now. Hoping today is a good one for all. Heart

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Thanks again @Mazarita. Hope you sleep well and the day ahead is right for you ❤

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❤️❤️ @CheerBear @Mazarita ....

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Just doing a check in @CheerBear if you are up for one. No probs if not?

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Hey @Teej 🙂

How are you going/how was your day?

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My day was not exciting I can tell you @CheerBear. You didn’t mention wanting to be bored to death 😘.

 

i went to the market and got food for mum which I then delivered to her, spent nearly 4 hours at her house, then went to supermarket for a few things and have collapsed on my iPad now. Trying to get the motivation up to do the jobs I wanted to do today 😳:face_with_rolling_eyes:

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Oops @CheerBear how was your day? 

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