Dear @Former-Member,
How lovely it is to come home. It sounds especially nice to be returning to a place where the finches and wrens sing and the young dogs snore. 
Your attitude to the centre of your universe is admirable to me. Expecting other people to be perfect in any way usually gets us into trouble, I think. A lot of people live with addictions for very long amounts of time and manage to survive through it. Life goes on around addictions and it's not everything about a person. In some ways it's just a small thing, even if it has big consequences. I say this, thinking about myself and about my parents, all of us have been very addicted to different things over time. All of us have also lived ethical lives, in our own ways, even if addiction has made our lives that much harder.
Your gift of help with the children and housework would have been so welcome. I'm so glad you had some special moments visiting with your centre.
And good to see you back with us too! 
Good night @Mazarita sleep well and peace be with you
I think I'll try the personality test from here tomorrow . . . maybe I'll get better marks? Though I know it wasn't a test, I wouldn't mind something a little more balanced 🙂
Goodnight, @Former-Member, peace be with you too. Aiming for bed before midnight tonight. If you feel like trying the test again tomorrow, try this site where I and others have done it:
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
See you tomorrow.