im back..... i think

[outlander]

He doesnt usually get mr to take him mum was suppose to take him yesterday but was sick so i offerred i felt bad if i didnt i was already running around whats 2 more trips hey. Its only twice a week he needs taking to work in the location hes in.
Im.just waiting on my gp so will be able to update more on the infection soon. I am still abit sore and feel yukky as well im hoping thats the infection amd nothing else
@Owlunar how are you today?

[Owlunar]

Hi @outlander

I am feeling okay today - much better than on Monday - and I am up a bit earlier than usual as well - and having my brekky at the computer and not in bed - the cat is still in bed - I guess she is asleep and hasn't noticed that I am up

You will feel unwell while that infection is clearing up - that is your body doing hard work - I had an infection in my nose last year and I was sick for days - I was on antibiotics and I had ointment for the sore - and the doctor told me that when the body is healing itself and the antibiotics are working people feel unwell - I guess it's the same for this infection you have atm - your body is on full-alert recovering

What did I say about my cat? Actually I didn't say a word but she is up and sitting in the sun near the front door - I swear that cat can read my mind

What time are you going to the doctor

And you are a sweet and kind person to care for everyone in your household as you do - I know you cared for your Nan and now your Pop but your mum seems to expect it - you care about your sisters too and they can be nasty - you are the better person

I had it with my mother and sister - now I don't have to worry - my sister can manage her own life without me and the less I see her the better - but I know that I care/d about both of them even though I keep and kept away - it is the better way

But I do have you in my thoughts and with you the best today

Dec

[outlander]

Lol arent cats funny that way @Owlunar glad your doing abit better and i read somewhere that your getting your hair done. Sounds like a good plan and yes i agreee getting your hair done is better than doing it yourself lol
Still waiting on gp appointment was at 940

[outlander]

Also thank you for your kind words ❤❤ i can see your the better person as well

[Owlunar]

Ah - so - you are waiting at your clinic - I hope there is not a crowd of men around you as there were the other day - I can understand that freaking you out

About my mother - she died over two years ago now - but I never got on with her and she snarled at me when I visited her when she was in care - so I didn't visit - I could not see the point and I would end up crying my eyes out in the taxi going home and that was not a good thing to do

So I gave up - but not because I was nasty - but because in the end we all have to care for ourselves

But I saw her just before she died and she was full of regret - so sorry for her - but I could not help her - only forgive her - which for me was easy - who wants to carry someone else bundle of whatever-it-is around with us

Being the better person means giving the other person space to be themselves - I can promise you that in the future your mother is mostly likely going to regret the way she treats you - and it is being the better person - hard perhaps - but better. We can grow into who we would rather be

Dec

[outlander]

Talk soon have to go for ultrasound on ovaries @Owlunar

[outlander]

Ok cant get in there until 330 and i gope my mother or someone is home to watch the kids
There was only one male but the rest was females and ot was very quite in there so not too bad
I get where your coming from and thank you for sharing that with me as well. I just wish sometimes i had a less mothering role so i can branch out abit but i cant atm. I get into trouble of everyone including my sisters
They expect so god damn much of me as well and its hard to keep up woth everyone and i care for my pop as well.

The breast infection is clearing up nicely
Stay on the antibiotics for the final 2 daya and just keep an eye out for it.

There is 4 explanations for lack of periods this this amount of time
1 pregnancy ruled that out already
2. Stress
3. Thyroid
4. Ovarian cysts

So we are ruling them all out to be safe
So number one is ruled out
Getting number 4 done today comes back clear checking thyroid then if thats clear ita stress

[Former-Member]

Will check in later, to see how your gp apt and ultrasound went @outlander 💟

[outlander]

@Former-Member above msg also

[outlander]

Above msg @Former-Member