03-07-2015 03:19 PM
03-07-2015 03:19 PM
Anne @PeppiPatty i think i got it from here. thanks for your help it has been a bit of a mission. I am hoping i helped you also. Things are not over yet, my brother is still saying he is busy but said to my mother today that he would email me tonight.
I really want to talk to him, I feel like there is never a right moment from my side or his. He is going to email me, I am sure that will tell some tasty results.
Thanks again.
Lee.
03-07-2015 04:03 PM
03-07-2015 04:03 PM
Dear Lee,
You have been helping me lots.....i got a restraining order, something thats taken me a very long time......and had lots of police over......i didnt want to go through police but was the best way and all through it,
You sent me kind messagees
Wrote hello to me
Helped other people
Wow. Thats doing a lot of good.
The joke..ille scratch your back......is really funny.
I wish my youngest brother and i had the brains you have, to reach out for help.
Speak soon, im suppossed to be doing something else ! Oops
03-07-2015 04:21 PM
03-07-2015 04:21 PM
hey Anne,
yes sometimes is unhealthy the way i think. but i am learning to control it.
Thanks.
Lee.
03-07-2015 04:49 PM
03-07-2015 04:49 PM
Sorry it's taken me a couple of days to respond.
I can't help but notice that you didn't answer part of my question -
'... I'd be interested to know what else you do with yourself - your interests etc...'
You have been a part of the community for a while now, but we don't know much about you. It would be great to learn more!
Nik
03-07-2015 05:31 PM
03-07-2015 05:31 PM
@NikNik I did reply to your msg, i said i can not really talk about myself if i can not really express myself.
This is the problem i have been having this whole time I have not expressed myself to my family or on here properly. I can not seem to get through I have trouble understanding things because of my leg it is badly damaged, I am not so quick on my feet. But i can still understand things its just I do not know why but for some reason I can not seem to get things to work. I only just recently disscovered this with my father that because my leg does not work with my head (because of the pain) i lose that part of the anatomy.
I only just disscovered this with my father, that the reason perhaps why he never listens is because i do not understand some things so well and forget that part out of what is going on.
I am hoping to talk this over with my brother and say to him that this is why perhaps things have not worked out so well.
To answer your question i can do more on here and express myself better, but i have troubles, hence the name troubled_one and would really like to wait until i talk to my brother before that is resolved.
Thanks.
lee.
03-07-2015 05:41 PM
03-07-2015 05:41 PM
Hi Lee,
My apologies - I didn't know that message was related to my question of what your interests and hobbies are.
I think you express yourself well; more than you give yourself credit for.
Nik
03-07-2015 06:02 PM
03-07-2015 06:02 PM
Thanks @NikNik yeah i actually had a bit of trouble with that message but yeah i wrote i can not express myself that well. Thanks for understanding.
Lee.
03-07-2015 08:07 PM
03-07-2015 08:07 PM
09-07-2015 12:03 PM
09-07-2015 12:03 PM
Hope you are doing ok. I felt for you because I keep trying to reach out to brothers.too.
Is he responding?
Also, re "other things' .. Do you like to watch the tennis? Do you like gaming?
It seems the best way to connect is on common interests or even having a friendly argybargy .. like I hate "Collingwood" etc.
09-07-2015 04:37 PM
09-07-2015 04:37 PM
Hey @Appleblossom, yeah no my brother is not responding. He said he would call when he gets a second, so I have no idea when he will get in touch with me. I am just trying to hang on and see what happens.
Funny you should mention him though, I saw his old best friend today who said he would contact him.
And, as a family in the last few days I have been thinking what it would be like to do things as a family with this now communication which is happening, what would happen? lol.
Thanks for reaching out, I think it was time due for a sane forums post!
What is the matter with your brothers? Sometimes is hard to get things working your way when it has not been for so long.
For me I like music, and working on a website.
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