Being misstreated

[PeppiPatty]

Dear Lee,

Its like we are both thinking the same thought..... in that enough is enough, ive tried to get him out but i need not to be freaking out of being yelled at and just ask him to leave. I dont want to put up  with daily stress anymore and then.......one day just dissappear, he has to go now.

So wish me luck. Im going to ask him again to leave. 

Ille say that he doesnt do anything for himself and its been a real stress in my life being around him.

Thank you. 

It sounds like you are having panic attacks......

I dont know.....have you seen a GP about this? 

You might have what i have. I feel so ashamed about calling the police and  othering them once two of them yelled at ke for wasting their time because 

1. he told them i had mental health issues and was making it up

2. He hadnt hit me.

2.

[NikNik]

Hi @PeppiPatty

NEVER feel ashamed for calling the police. If you feel threatened and/or unsafe, it's CRITICAL that you do not hesitate. It's a reflection on the police person who yelled at you, not on you.

Your safety is so important - please stay safe.

[PeppiPatty]

So, ive been rereading alll the messages online and also feeling like ive been bothering you people,, this has been a long drama.........

He just wont go. Why isnt there a service where a person will come like a policeperson will come just to ask him to leave but with the strength of your messages, i will ask him to leave again. Wont show him the messages, just ask himm to leave. 

I need tp take s few days off because ive blow  7 gig a bitez or meg bitez and need to adjust my usage on monday ......ps....has anyone noticed i  using an incredibly groovy tablet.....

Lol lol

It doesnt feel as exclusive as my ipad though.....

[NikNik]

@PeppiPatty

Did you see my post above? Please do not hesitate to call the police.

We would prefer you get yelled at than you not calling you putting yourself at risk.

Do not feel ashamed for calling the police. It's their job to keep you safe.

Please take care.

[PeppiPatty]

Yeah, i dont think @NikNik but thanks. Im too old to be told all during the Christmas break that im waSting their time thaT they have spoken to him and he told them i was making it up because i have mental health issues and on a large dose of medication. Then no restraining order because hes never hit me..

And he wont go. ..

I get told almost every day that im lazy and im wasting tax payers money. I thought the thing to do is just dissappear but @Troubled_One is right. 

When he gets back from work on Monday, i  going to tell him.  

[NikNik]

Hi @PeppiPatty

I'm quite concerned for you at the moment. You don't seem like your usual self.

If you aren't going to call the police, can try something else - Can you tell someone who lives near you what's going on? Can you tell them that on Monday you're going to ask him to leave and tell them you will call them on Monday after you tell him so they know you're safe? Better yet, could someone be there to support you?

Just because someone doesn't hit you, doesn't mean it's not abuse.

1800 RESPECT is a great organisation, and their website has A LOT of resources and information on staying safe. You can find their site here - please have a read and call them - they will give you some practical information on managing this situation.

Thinking of you.

[PeppiPatty]

Hi @NikNik

Ive told a few people who live nearby but no no support and one lady says i deserve it..... (public housing has people in who need support not give it )

I have been laughed at by my peers as dont want to say im getting a move. 

Just called that place you gave me. 

, means so much to me. I feel and have felt quite dead inside for about 3 weeks. 

[PeppiPatty]

I saw  place called rouh down the street. I was going to drop in and see them on monday.

[NikNik]

@PeppiPatty I'm sad to read that you have been feeling dead inside

You make all of us feel so loved and supported - I hope we can do the same.

I am so relieved you called the number - keep in contact with them, okay?

And please don't isolate yourself from the Forums - we want you to have somewhere to vent.

[NikNik]

Hi @PeppiPatty - What is rouh? I'm glad that you're planning on reaching out.