Dealing with a problem creatively

[PeppiPatty]

I rang a Western Australian domestic violence phone i said to the woman who answered: oh, you seem very young then apologised but she still sounded defensive. I said, Look, i need advice. If your going to keep on sounding defensive after my apology you can ........and hung up on her....

I waited about 15 mins then called again...whaddya know, it was her so i apologised again a couple of times..so she says.....i aknowlege your apology and thank you....i hear that you are apologizing to me........(lol) thank you for your %apology, i can hear you.... (lol)

I said that i was negative and gave her the list of what ive done......

Oh she says, well its your choise not to call the police but the best thing you can do is keep on  hassling Department Of Housing. And maybe go to see your member of Parliment in your area.

I asked her if Rouh would help out..........she said she didnt know  i said ide been to a talk of theirs and will visit them on monday......

No, I said, i do not have support of help in the cloak of a friend  so she suggested i call my son.....but as i forgot his birthday.......hes not answer his phone.....

But yay, i have options now. Also, ask him again to leave and not come back. 

[Troubled_One]

* i got to say where did my thread go lol. oh well i think thats over now.

yeah anne, i have been thinking the same, it like we are both caring for each other and willing to do what we can for each other. I noticed last night that i am really trying to hard and to do the reverse sometimes to give my self a break.

i really think you can do it and get rid of this person. i can help you if needed from sane forums.

I have a good GP but i am also working with other doctors. i see my psychologist tomorrow, but i live with my dad and trying to make the family work as well as possible.

I hope you stay well and get rid of your problems.

I think @NikNik is very good at guiding people in the right areas and you should really listen to him.

Maybe is your turn anne to take the problem on and see if you can suceed, like i did when you said my brother is important to me.

take care, lee.

[Former-Member]

Hi @PeppiPatty

I havent been writing as much lately as things have been so busy here (also having problems with my computer 😞 ) and im sorry for that. You write so beautifully to other people and you tell your story in a gentle way. You are never a bother and i want to echo what NikNik said, please keep posting and venting and letting some of those feeling 'out' a little bit. Your situation sounds incredibly difficult. It took me several attempts to leave my ex who was ... not nice ... and it is a really lonely and difficult time. Keep fighting, we are here for you and will stand with you no matter what. hugs if you want them,

LJ

[Troubled_One]

oh yeah @NikNik and @PeppiPatty anne is very good at taking on other peoples problems, so she sometimes makes them her own.

but i hope anne you get your problems fixed.

take care. lee.

[NikNik]

Hi @Troubled_One

I moved JustAnother47yrs part of your discussion because it was a new topic.

(which is why some posts are labelled 'Being misstreated')

But your discussion is still here 🙂

[PeppiPatty]

@Former-Member and @Troubled_One  @NikNik @SimpleAsThis @WombatBoots 

Everyone...

Lord Of The Rings films becauze i dont read the books anymore.

You have all kept me staying focused. I can see its really easy to passive and to stop fighting..but actually ive been fighting for him to leave since December.

Soi told him i didnt want to be with him, hes called left nasty message, constant messages questioning my mental wellbeing. I emailed nice policeperson last Monday, its been 7 days so left a message for him to call me tomorrow and left email for Rouh last  night. 

Ive taken advise. 

So more action, hope i get moved quickly. 

[Former-Member]

Well done @PeppiPatty

You are being so brave and proactive on following up with everything. All of the services that you need to keep in contact with in itself can be overwhelming!  You will get through it and be happy and safe and you'll feel so much stronger for having done it.

Keep it up!

LJ

[Troubled_One]

hey @NikNik i thought of that, you beat me to it.

thanks. lee.

[PeppiPatty]

Hi All,

Yep, its overwhelming. But this is to you @Troubled_One and @Former-Member he started abusing me in front of little Aboriginal girl of 3 years old so i have had to not see her until he was gone anyway.

There was nothing keeping me there but i was doing all this exxtra work so he wouldnt start yelling at me. 

I feel so isolated. So great you Re here for me. 

Tomorrow im going to pick another letter written for me by an agancy to take to Department of Housing and hope that nice oliceman  calls me.

Lee, your doing so well.....are you calling your brother? 

P.eP.eXe give your children a little cuddle @Former-Member  

[Former-Member]

Hi 🙂

most mornings here start with snuggles altogether, which is usually nice.. at least for two minutes before they argue lol. 

Good luck with the policeman, hope he gets back to you today. I don't really understand how some people can be so terrible, especially with children. Its such an unfair world. I'm glad that you know you do deserve better.

Yes we're here for you and never further than the screen away 😄 LOL

Good luck with housing place today

LJ