Dear @Former-Member
Dear @hiddenite
You have both written revealing Helpful messages.....jeepers, I Knew that @lisajane had a few little tricks up her sleeve.....
Karen, my son's grade 4 teacher said some very disparaging this to me about my son. I was shocked but also grateful that my fears were confirmed, she really was the silly billy I thought she was. My son's grade 6 teacher embraced him and she was able to bring out his true talents and wow.....the whole school found out how talented he really was when he led a School assembly.
The teachers were talking about my son for a couple of days.
I digress.........this thing is .......that if your not able to act.......because of being vulnerable
There is no problems. You have got people who can help you. In the next appointment, you can softly speak to your parents, to your psychiatrist, or someone you feel you can
1. Your children are a bit batterred up and they may need to see like a tutor to make sure their schoolwork is up to standard.
This is what wil, give them confidence right now.
2. You have paid therapy and you Love your children. They are properly cared for by your parents. They are not suffering.
They are resiliant.
When tne son i wrote about turned 21, he had his first psychosis. When a friend chucked a plane ticket at me fo see him, the first thing my son said to me when i arrived at the Psych hospital is , ' i remember what my Dad did to you.' But I have had heaps of therapy and so had he and we spoke about it in an adult way.
What saved my son was he went to live with a family member who tutored him through school and he got a high mark for HIgh School. What he loves now is going to University. He will probably take several more years to finish but whatever.
It was great.
