04-07-2019 10:51 PM - edited 04-07-2019 10:53 PM
04-07-2019 10:51 PM - edited 04-07-2019 10:53 PM
My dear owl friend @Former-Member . I am so sorry about all the bad news which has hit you today. Thats really rough. To be constantly hit with bad news is really really hard. Sometimes I get that way that I come to expect all news to be bad, with seemingly never anything good happening. But I know thats unrealistic. Somewhere there is some good news, some good things happening. Its so unfair that you are treated as you are by your family members. I dont know why some people are the way they are. It would be nice to change others sometimes, to make them better people. I would do that to my sister if I could. Some of the things she says and does is simply beyond my comprehension, I do not understand her at all I think. If she were not my sister, I would not maintain any contact with her. But she is family, and I guess I still love her as a sister. The sister I would like her to be perhaps, rather than the person she really is? There are certainly occasions where we are better off without some people, and sometimes that happens to be family members, other times ... friends or workmates. Life is very unfair to many of us, and it seems thats the case for you. Some people have everything, others very little. But at the end of the day, its not material possessions which makes us happy. I am sure there is nothing you could ever have done to deserve the treatment you receive, nothing can justify such unfair infliction of emotional pain on another human being, let alone a family member. All you can do is be the good person you are, you dont have to be like them. Be better than them.
I am proud of you for still being able to see the beauty in life, despite what you have to endure. King parrots are splendid creatures. And I am glad that you have clean fresh air and beautiful wild life where you are. Concentrate on that, and not what you dont have .. ie family support and wealth.
Kindness and understanding coming your way.
Sherry 💕🦉
04-07-2019 11:54 PM
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05-07-2019 10:23 AM
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06-07-2019 06:47 PM
06-07-2019 06:47 PM
Hi @Former-Member How have you been?
You're a very good person, in my book.
It's so hard when people (especially relatives) judge us harshly, or refuse to talk to us calmly & sensibly.
I can never understand it.
One of my brothers thinks that I am dirt & manure, or speaks to me as if I am.
I only ever showed him kindness.
So, yes it does hurt, & it's not fair - for you or for anyone.
Adge
06-07-2019 08:36 PM
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06-07-2019 08:43 PM
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hugs @Former-Member
here for you my friend xxx
06-07-2019 08:53 PM
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06-07-2019 08:55 PM
06-07-2019 08:55 PM
had a gall bladder attack this morning @Former-Member and been resting for the day as i think i am coming down with a cold -- hope not
xx
06-07-2019 09:02 PM - edited 06-07-2019 09:03 PM
06-07-2019 09:02 PM - edited 06-07-2019 09:03 PM
😞That's not good @Shaz51 Hope it's not a Gall Bladder infection... do you have a tin of puree apple?
06-07-2019 09:14 PM
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