Hi @Former-Member ...... 🤗💕

I am sure it is hard to try to come to grips with telling your story when you can only allude to much of what happened, but I hope the initial telling of it was cathartic for you in the first place, even though you experienced after-shocks from that too.

I think it is a great idea to be taking Holly with you on your trip.  Of course she will need a lot of breaks, so that works in well for you anyway.

I think you are doing a sensible, self-nurturing thing not staying with your sister.  Keep to your own integrity.  

i can't think of what to advise you @Former-Member, other than to tell you I will be holding your hand along the way .... just sitting quietly with you in solidarity for what will be a difficult visit, to say the least.

Hugs ..... 💜💐💕