Hi @NikNik

I am back ..

I was a bit disappointed that my choir president didnt take the Out from the shadows .. idea seriously .. and she works in the field .. and knows I was a ward of the state ..she is gorgeous and has been very friendly ..

but she also keeps trying to get me to laugh with her at a rather odd young man in the choir .. (3-4 times) I am polite but detached but I am getting upset as I feel coerced to pick on the odd man out ... which I have never done and dislike intensely.

I also tried to talk about a personality clash that I am having in the choir .. she listened .. but the particular person has been charming her as president .. but not me

I went last night and intend to stick it out til end of year but have asked conductor if I can skip a few rehearsals if necessary.

any ideas ...