@NikNik He is a young man about 26 ... he looks in our direction with fear or a quizzical look when she is laughing ... she is actually a nice person and he is "difficult" ... but I have to tell her to stop it cos its upsetting me now. I am quite clear about that boundary.

How do you deal with the concept of "the big personality" and where is the line from that to "bully"? This is regarding the lady I am having the clash with.