Just a quick sound of my hands clapping for you @justanother47yr, Anne that is marvellous that you have gotten through a court proceeding with such verve and compassion still for your ex..
Sometimes a bit of self medication is a very ordinary response, common to many of us..The old mary-jane (choof) can be very relaxing for some people..me.I can't hack the weed at all.hydroponics has changed its strength and I cannot touch it...too much of a trigger to take up smoking again..
Anyhoo..waving at you, just glad to see you have had a good outcome:)