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@Phoenix_Rising - thanks for your honesty. I'm sorry to hear that you recognised the need for help and were in such a desperate situation to get it when it wasn't forthcoming. In no way am I suggesting that people with BPD are constantly thinking up evil plans.
I think the difference in the situation with myself and @Former-Member is that our ex's were perpetrators of violence. Can BPD and domestic violence co exist or are they two separate issues? During that classic domestic violence cycle when a honeymoon phase follows a violent incident, what goes through the mind? Are they genuinely remorseful or is it a case of she will leave me if I don't apologise and try to make it up thus alleviating that possibility of abandonment?
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