It is very hard, but particularly if people are discussing their confronting thoughts, or beliefs they may suspect aren't true, etc., then what is discussed between the psychologist or other therapists may need to remain just between them, as we don't want any embarrassment to prevent people from being really honest about what is troubling them and getting the best help possible as a result.

This is part of a child's autonomy developing if it is in such a context.

But you should be advised of information that helps you support your loved one and respects your caring role, so risks or situations to avoid, signs of deterioration, who to contact, what part you should play in the recovery or any 'crisis' plan, appointments people need to attend etc.