Backing away

[Faith-and-Hope]

I agree @Nay69 ..... I think it is very good for you to be with us here right now, with everything you are going through, and offering to step away was @TAB trying to make room for you, thinking he had trodden in your toes ..... he will read your messages in the morning and understand, I’m sure ..... he is a gorgeous sensitive guy as well, and we are all here because we are going through a hard time, and for many of us, including you, that has been for a lifetime.

You will find that the forums are something like a big family ..... but we are not always happy, as it is in “real” families, and where misunderstandings occur, it’s important that we communicate and or take time out, but all pull together to make things work around here ......

Wipe away those tears when you are ready to ..... have you seen some of our threads under the Social Spaces topic heading ?  We have threads about cats, dogs, birds, craft, art, recipes, gardening ...... all sorts ......

Are you a country lass or city chick ?

[Nay69]

@Faith-and-Hope

Born in the city but raised in the middle of Australia.

Can’t complain because it has kept me grounded.... I find the city too overwhelming 😔💐x

[Nay69]

@Appleblossom

Will do my friend ❣️Xoxo

[Faith-and-Hope]

I have loved country, city and outback @Nay69 ..... I am definitely a country lass at heart though ..... can’t go far past nature and birds, bees, dolphins n suchlike.

[Nay69]

@Faith-and-Hope

There’s absolutely noting on earth like stepping into your own backyard and enjoying the uninterrupted views of an endless sky of stars❤️
It’s truly heaven on each xoxo

[Nay69]

@Faith-and-Hope

Can I also take the opportunity to thank you for not letting me give up xoxo

[Faith-and-Hope]

I have a view out across rooftops where I am at the moment @Nay69 ..... so I will visualise a backyard full of stars .....:

[Nay69]

@Faith-and-Hope

I would send some pictures to you if I knew how 😊❤️

[Faith-and-Hope]

That is one of the special ways we are all here for each other @Nay69.  When I arrived here I was at the end of my tether, not knowing what else to do with my situation ..... what else I could do with my situation, and there’s not much.  We are in a holding pattern, and every day I have to get up and have a day ..... some of those days are good ..... some are not good ..... and others are “meh” ..... but here I am, and the forums have been invaluable to me.

[Nay69]

@Faith-and-Hope

I hear you and I understand your pain.... let’s live tomorrow together in saying when life gives you lemons you make lemonade 😊❤️
One day at a time my beautiful friend