Being misstreated

[PeppiPatty]

Also I got back together with my husband so a lot of my bills are for both of us.

Also ..... Please have a giggle ....... I use lots of rose hip oil on my face at night so I budget for that too ..... It's $15 every three to four weeks ...... Helps with the wrinkles .......

[Troubled_One]

Oh yeah the budget, I will look at that. Thanks for the help.

I need oil for stretch marks lol, I am only a little overweight but have stretch marks.

I got to say too, that I want to talk about my mother as well, i remember a while ago you saying your mother is naracistic I did not know what that meant but I think my mother loves herself too. I feel like everytime i talk to her it is her trying to get me off her back and her having wonderful memories of everything. @Appleblossom  mentioned this a while ago as well, that, she never gets satisfaction from anything. For me all I see is my life really going no where, with my knee I dont really enjoy anything, I think appleblossum feels this way from her kids and her upbringing. My knee gives me skizophrenia, because I am  constantly thinking in a loop, like I was as a child except now I could do something about it but I cant with a f*cked leg.

[PeppiPatty]

Dearest Lee,

If this is important for you : your probably best having your GP give you an idea of a good oil. I don't think I would get something like this without good advice because you will be wasting your money...... Maybe someone on the forums might give you some advice ...... I've started a thread on vibration machines ...... I wanna see about if anyone has one for me and my husband.

I have had very big periods in my life...... In 2003 I was 65 kand watched my weight go up to 97 kby 2010. Therapy and medication......... I'm now 68 k.

Just a tic we will talk about your mum: can you give specific times ? It's a horrible thing to call your mum if you are not right and it sounds like she wants you to have a good life but she is very upset

[Troubled_One]

It's not that important to me, biooil is the go but that is the least of my worries. My mother I don't think is trying to do the right thing and is upset because it isn't. I just think she thinks I am negative and she says this to me. Anything to keep her happy and in good standing with her other kids, and it has always been like this. She constantly tells me her other kids don't act like me and I am the only one saying this. But I can let it go but the damage is done.

[PeppiPatty]

This is very difficult for you Lee .....
Can o give you some suggestions ? Is this okay ?
You are 34 years old..... I don't think I can remember a time where you have Ever acted up. Actually I think that you are one of the most caring 34 years olds I know

A lady called @chookmojo on the forums suggests to just write something on the sane forums and I'm wondering if you can say it to your Dad ....... He might be able to explain it to you ......
Could you tell your Dad if he could Clarify why your Mum says this. I don't want you to get put under any undue stress
This is not your fault.

This is not your fault
Some people ...including me ......... have to be taught how to act with MI

I get furious sometimes that my mother in law doesn't like me. Sometimes I yell at my husband.... But it's not his fault.... I need to very quickly remember this and apologise immediately because he was diagnosed with MI years ago ....... I don't want to stress him out

[Troubled_One]

Hey anne.

ill get back tomorrow.

[Appleblossom]

I think it can great to delay a response ... I often need time to let things burble through my mind and get clarity on what is right for me.

We are all unique and sometimes different strokes work for different folks.  Eg I dont HAVE a budget ... I live within my budget . .. and that gets me by ... securely and soundly.

I bought bio oils etc years ago .. for my son's stretch marks ... but he ignores them and my oils ... so if its not serious .. you can use your own nous about it too.  Now, I use them up on myself ...  its a good product, so I dont waste it, or nag unecessarily.

I would be doing what you can for your leg ... research on line .. understand the medical terms used about it ... maybe physio can help ... or other physical therapies and exercises ... but make sure he/she is sensitive to you and your needs ... most of the physios I had for my neck were good ... but one was a bitch ... so ... just be careful.

If you cant stop the pain ... try and reduce the pain ... that was my mantra for 10 years ... "I want to reduce my pain" ... there are things that help and there are some bottom lines ... my neck/back situation has improved a lot, but I still have chronic pain ... find out what works in your particular case. 

regards Apple

[PeppiPatty]

@Troubled_One she forgot both nicknames Apple and Isabella
I

[Troubled_One]

Sorry who is Isabella?
I got back because its been a few days. I have changed my thinking from son thoughts I used to go by, because thinking to much in a pattern was making me panic. I am going to see my gp and get a health plan and see a psychologist to see if I can change some things, the problem the more I let go the crazier my thinking gets so catch 22 really I think I'm making progress but something always slips up.
A different psychologist as I am away from where I was.
Anyway goodnight ladies and gents

[PeppiPatty]

Like your writing @Troubled_One ladies and gents.................hahahahaha  :0)

I meant that @Appleblossom has two nicknames...apple and Isabella I was being cheeky....

Take care Master  Lee